Sleep Challenges

Dreaming can become a challenge to children because the dreams children have can be very vivid to the point where they are indistinguishable from real life.

Between 2 to 6 years of age children start to become aware of dreaming. These dreams can be very vivid and alarming. This is also the stage when night terrors, nightmares and night fears are most common. Dreaming is a normal part of development but if your child has frequent sleep disturbance as part of this stage of development, then it can be very difficult for the family as a whole to cope. On average, a quarter of all children may have one nightmare a week.

Nightmares are frightening dreams which occur during REM sleep that usually result in night waking. These nightmares may include monsters and other frightening imaginary creatures. The child may be afraid to return to sleep, young children may have difficulty in distinguishing between a dream and reality and may insist that the imagined monster still exists nearby. If these scary events persist then the child may resist going to bed and may also become fearful in the daytime. These events are often remembered in the daytime and, for some children, the opportunity to discuss them can be helpful. However, if your child does not want to, or cannot talk about this don't press.

There are a variety of strategies available to help children and parents cope with these events.

Night terrors are also frightening but usually forgotten by morning. A child experiencing night terrors will not be comforted. They appear to wake suddenly and are fearful but, although their eyes are open, they are often still asleep. Trying to comfort them at this stage is more about feeling that you are caring and doing something, the child is unaware of you and doesn't accept cuddles or reassurances. The return to calm sleep is usually quite quick. A child who has not napped well, is over tired, or has had a frightening experience during the day is more likely to have night terrors as their mind tries to rationalize the fright.

If you need help to help your child cope with these events;- Contact us, info@Dream-Angus.com

Did you know?

Here are a few things you may not have known about sleep.

1) Your body's internal alarm enables you to wake up spontaneously at the time that you feel is right for you, is triggered by the stress hormone adrenocorticotropin. The levels of this hormone may occasionally rise an hour or two before an expected wake up call to prepare your body for waking up. Sometimes this works "too efficiently" and you wake half and hour or an hour before the time you had in mind.

2) In a study, completed over six years, and looking at a million adults, it was demonstrated that people who get only six to seven hours of sleep a night have a lower death rate than those who get eight hours.

3) The Spanish, possibly because of their "Siesta" in the afternoon,sleep an average of 40 minutes less per night than other Europeans. This is balanced by the fact that Spain also has the highest rate of workplace accidents in the EU, and the third lowest productivity rate. In a gesture to integrate Spain into the EU a campaing was launched to eliminate these afternoon naps/siestas.

4) Oxford University researchers, in 2002,unsurprisingly concluded, that the traditional practice of counting sheep is an ineffective cure for insomnia. This mental activity is so boring that other problems and concerns inevitably surface.

5) During REM sleep, every 90 minutes or so, there are bursts of electrical activity through the brain stem. These are related to dreaming. During an average lifetime, the ordinary person spends more than six years dreaming, clocking more than 136,000 dreams in all. The reasons why we dream have been speculated on for many years, but no one has yet identified the reasons for dreaming.